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What makes you different?

13.06.2025 06:13

What makes you different?

Anxious to get a job, I chose to do what was socially recommended for me. So, I tried. Being a govt. servant. Failed. A Research Scholar. Didn’t make it. A Professor. Guess what?

You know how all of this enlightenment came to me.

Consider a rat who never came out of the hole fearing for his life. He stayed in the dark for years and died one day, unbeknownst.

I found out I have cancer—I have not told my family. We can’t afford the treatment anyway. Should I just say nothing and let nature take its course?

Yes, I was not at all happy.

I know being a writer is no different. But my journey is different. Its unique to me.

A govt. job could do it for me. Plus Money, plus security, plus prestige.

How can I remove decimals in math?

Indeed, a number of other factors contribute to your uniqueness, but that’s for you to introspect.

Experiments: My life has been a group of experiments that failed to take off until I resorted to writing.

Do anything and everything because you like it. You love it. Do the things that make you go crazy. Things you’d barter your breath for. Things that make your life a rainbow.

How do I run away? I'm 15 and live in Oklahoma.

Neither I’m Tesla, who got poor grades in school, nor I’ve grown to invent electric current that powers many electronic devices today. Nor I’m an entrepreneur who is the idea behind the Tesla cars.

Even if that means disappointing your parents and teachers for some time, but believe you’ll eventually make them feel proud.

Not because people show it off and you have to follow the lead.

Why are North Carolina Democrats against Mark Robinson? He is the modern Martin Luther King Jr. and the Democrats are being stupid for not voting him.

“The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.” - Lao Tzu

Become different not according to the world, but according to what you like and what you don’t.

To take out these experiments, accept the asymmetry of your emotions, your eccentricities, aspirations and thoughts for what they actually are. Instead of filtering it through the social system, recognize the difference and apply it in your life.

Have you made a female relative or friend squirt?

Tried everything. A well-paying corporate job, govt. exams. Nothing provided me with security. I didn’t have time to myself. Hustling was my name. Didn’t go to parties, travel or anything. Didn’t talk to friends.

Take my word. You won’t regret it.

Long story short, here I am. Being a writer. Doing things I’d always love to do. Sharing my experiences of what I learnt.

Why does everyone hate Anthony Joshua so much? I get that he isn’t the best heavyweight boxer ever but people claim he’s a no skill fighter but he has an Olympic gold medal, a world championship, and beat Klitschko, a dominant force in boxing

"Be yourself; everyone else is already taken." - Oscar Wilde

Agree?

I always yearned to go for government jobs because I had a few relatives already into it and doing well with money and security. And here is me, with an arts background, uncertain about what to choose.

How far back into your childhood can your remember and what is your favorite memory of that time?

Without experiments, is life worth it.

Honestly, there’s nothing that makes ‘me’ different.

He would have experienced the miracle called light. Maybe he got better food to eat. Then he got wounded. Then in search of balm, he travaled to the wilderness and found a party of rats, eaten to its heart’s content and danced the night out.

Was Daenerys' downfall inevitable after she left Meereen in Game of Thrones?

Being different is being okay with failure, so you know what the dessert of a win tastes like.

Don’t get a partner because you’re jealous of your friends.

I have always wanted to write things. Wrote poetry during my grad and reluctantly left it for preparation of a govt. exam because who’s got extra time for it.

Why do liberals think same-sex marriage is alright? The Bible makes it very clear that it's not alright to be gay, why can't liberals understand that?

Don’t drink because everybody does today.

Don’t choose to be an engineer just because it pays well.

Experiences: What has happened to me? Have I led a normal life with two parents and two siblings? Yes. Breakups I’ve had. Friends I’ve made. School I have attended. Guides I’ve met. Places I’ve been.

What is the happy reality of our generation?

Otherwise, thank you for reading. It was fun writing to you all. Hope it helped you in more ways than one.

Being different is being a mess, yet being okay with it.

So, keep on experimenting.

Why do a lot of women have a crush on my boyfriend when they know he is in a relationship with me? I am starting to feel insecure too. What should I do?

What if he’d come outside?

C’mon, it’s an opportunity to break the rules, stand out and become ONE of a kind.

Not ignoring emotions because they can be destructive. Not underestimating your aspirations because society calls them second-rate.

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All of it would have been different, and this life would mean something, at least for him.

So, what actually makes us all different?

You can be fearful and still use it to tame your weaknesses and build your emotional strength.

How can a man clean his Soul?

Everything has shaped me. Friends who gave me their pens and journals. Best friends I never made. Crush that made me write poems while he didn’t care. Romances I’ve missed. Opportunity to become an editor or a news correspondent I missed. I think all this has made me the writer I am.

What makes you YOU.

If you’ve read this far, let me tell you one more thing.

"Life is a journey, not a destination. Enjoy the ride." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

Can you make it?

Until the day I choose to listen to myself. I let my subconscious go wherever it wanted me to go. It was not just in dreams I wanted to live, but in real life. Not allowing others to cloud my personality, my ability, my inclination towards philosophy, knack to motivate others, and my indifference towards others’ opinions.

P.S. What’s your idea of being different? Do you have a different point of view?

I am an ordinary human being with the same body structure as you who are reading, you and I have the same material of what our bodies and brains are made up of.

Don’t go to the gym because it’s a fitness fad.

Being different is being a weirdo. And being okay about it.

I experimented. A lot. And now I know I don't need more trials of this kind. I’m writing this today at just the right place from the comfort of my home while it rains outside. While a cold breeze rings music to my senses.